I was going to say what others have already said--well, duh!

But here's what's strange--sometimes I go through periods of self-denial (I don't want to call it dieting because I've never subscribed to a low-carb, or grapefruit, or whatever manner of fad diets out there) which make me feel pleased with myself. I'll have to pay particular attention to see if I'm more aggressive in any way; normally, I'm not by nature.