med_cat: (woman reading)
2016-07-15 03:29 pm

Two poems with a common theme

Revenge

At times … I wish
I could meet in a duel
the man who killed my father
and razed our home,
expelling me
into
a narrow country.
And if he killed me,
I’d rest at last,
and if I were ready—
I would take my revenge!
*
But if it came to light,
when my rival appeared,
that he had a mother
waiting for him,
or a father who’d put
his right hand over
the heart’s place in his chest
whenever his son was late
even by just a quarter-hour
for a meeting they’d set—
then I would not kill him,
even if I could.
*
Likewise … I would not murder him )

by Taha Muhammad Ali
Nazareth, April 15, 2006


Originally posted by [livejournal.com profile] duathir at Taha Muhammad Ali, 'Revenge'

And this poem reminded me of a much older one, by James Russell Lowell:

Yussouf

A stranger came one night to Yussouf’s tent,
Saying, “Behold one outcast and in dread,
Against whose life the bow of power is bent,
Who flies, and hath not where to lay his head;
I come to thee for shelter and for food,
To Yussouf, called through all our tribes ‘The Good.’”

“This tent is mine,” said Yussouf, “but no more
Than it is God’s; come in, and be at peace;
Freely shalt thou partake of all my store
As I of his who buildeth over these
Our tents his glorious roof of night and day,
And at whose door none ever yet heard Nay.”
So Yussouf entertained his guest that night... )


med_cat: (cat in dress)
2014-09-18 07:37 am

Quote of the day

Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that their behavior was “OK.”

What it does mean is that we’re ready to move on. To release the heavy weight. To shape our own life, on our terms, without any unnecessary burdens.

Forgiveness is pure freedom — and forgiveness is a choice.

— Dr. Suzanne Gelb
med_cat: (cat in dress)
2014-07-09 07:07 am

Quote of the day

“Resentment is negative energy that keeps you connected to someone who hurt you. Forgiveness acts like a pair of scissors to cut that energetic cord. Forgiving is not saying what they did is okay. You’re saying that they’ve hurt you enough and you will not allow them to hurt you anymore.”

– Blessings, Regina of Romancing Your Soul http://RomancingYourSoul.com/
med_cat: (cat in dress)
2014-07-02 05:23 pm

A trio of quotes


(Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn't know before you learned it. --Doe Zantamata)
~~
Three more: )
med_cat: (cat in dress)
2014-06-11 03:21 pm

Quote of the day


Forgiveness is a process of giving up the old for something new. Old experiences and memories that we hold on to in anger, resentment, shame, or guilt cloud our spirit mind. The truth is, everything that has happened had to happen. It was a growth experience. There was something you needed to know or learn. If you stay angry, hurt, afraid, ashamed, or guilty, you miss the lesson. You will be stuck in a cloud of pain.
— Iyanla Vanzant
med_cat: (cat and books)
2011-01-30 08:29 am

Noted and quoted

'The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naïve forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.'

Thomas Szasz (b. 1920)

and in a similar vein:

"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names."
(Theodore Roosevelt)

and

"Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much."
(Oscar Wilde)

and on a different note:

Forgiveness


My heart was heavy, for its trust had been
Abused, its kindness answered with foul wrong;
So turning gloomily from my fellow men,
One summer Sabbath day I strolled among
The green mounds of the village burial-place;
Where, pondering how all human love and hate
Find one sad level; and how, soon or late,
Wronged and wrongdoer, each with meekened face,
And cold hands folded over a still heart,
Pass the green threshold of our common grave,
Whither all footsteps tend, whence none depart,
Awed for myself, and pitying my race,
Our common sorrow, like a mighty wave,
Swept all my pride away, and, trembling, I forgave!

(John Greenleaf Whittier)

 

 

 

med_cat: (Default)
2009-11-06 06:05 am

Forgiveness

My heart was heavy, for its trust had been
Abused, its kindness answered with foul wrong;
So turning gloomily from my fellow men,
One summer Sabbath day I strolled among
The green mounds of the village burial-place;
Where, pondering how all human love and hate
Find one sad level; and how, soon or late,
Wronged and wrongdoer, each with meekened face,
And cold hands folded over a still heart,
Pass the green threshold of our common grave,
Whither all footsteps tend, whence none depart,
Awed for myself, and pitying my race,
Our common sorrow, like a mighty wave,
Swept all my pride away, and, trembling, I forgave!

(John Greenleaf Whittier)