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'The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naïve forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.'

Thomas Szasz (b. 1920)

and in a similar vein:

"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names."
(Theodore Roosevelt)

and

"Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much."
(Oscar Wilde)

and on a different note:

Forgiveness

My heart was heavy, for its trust had been
Abused, its kindness answered with foul wrong;
So turning gloomily from my fellow men,
One summer Sabbath day I strolled among
The green mounds of the village burial-place;
Where, pondering how all human love and hate
Find one sad level; and how, soon or late,
Wronged and wrongdoer, each with meekened face,
And cold hands folded over a still heart,
Pass the green threshold of our common grave,
Whither all footsteps tend, whence none depart,
Awed for myself, and pitying my race,
Our common sorrow, like a mighty wave,
Swept all my pride away, and, trembling, I forgave!

(John Greenleaf Whittier)